American culture has placed a strong focus on familial relations for centuries. Americans generally define family in what David M. Schneider defines as basic and derivative terms. In explanation, Schneider considers basic terms to be mother, father, son, uncle,
etc., while derivative terms add a modifier to basic terms and offers examples such as grandfather, mother-in-law, ex-husband,
etc., which show distinction and distance between those relatives and the closer basic ones (Schneider 1980:21-22). This terminology demonstrates the way Americans view family: as an interconnected construction based on
biology yet joined further by law through marriage. The American ideology of
what a family is rests very heavily on biology. Obviously, this idea of blood
relatives is central to familial ties, and is how Americans define their families. Ideally,
a married man and woman have sexual intercourse, and in doing so, each contribute half of their genes to form a child connected
to them by blood. Accordingly, maternity is key, as it provides not only half
of the genetic code and the womb in which a child grows, but forever holds a place as mother to the child making it one of
the childs closest blood relatives. Traditionally, the mother is seen as a natural,
nurturing icon: one who provides half the genetics through her egg, forms a bond with the child during gestation, and then
develops the social bond through loving and supporting the child into adulthood. However,
adoption and the ever-evolving reproductive technologies offer challenges to the cultural conception of family by manipulating
the biological and social aspects of maternity.
Adoption challenges traditional views of maternity by
usurping the idea that women naturally care for and bring up their own biological children.
In adoption, a woman gives up her biological child, which is then taken up by another family who care for and nurture
the child and act as parents. These parents generally are not biologically related
to the child, and in fact, it is rare for either set of parents ever to meet. This
challenges tradition views of maternity by completely ignoring the weight held by blood ties and nature, instead placing all
substance on social, contractual terms. What becomes the mother is maternal only
by law and choice, and has no biological relationship to the child. This undermines
the closely held value of blood ties and maternity that are deemed so important by American culture and leaves instead only
social ties. Many adoptees argue that the bond built by so-called social ties
is nothing to be scoffed at. One adoptee who considered her real mother [as]
the person who adopted, raised, and loved her clearly stated, I would never want a different mother than I have. I mean, shes my mother (Modell 1994:168). Regardless, many
adoptees do search for their birth parents, and though their reasons vary, many are simply looking to answer all those whys
(Modell 1994:143). These whys could be anything from familial medical history
to a search for their roots (Modell 1994:143). This search for birth mothers
reveals how reinforced the ideas of blood relatives are within American society. Without
such an ingrained significance placed on blood as a means of defining family, there would be no reason to search for a birth
mother. This desire shows the focus that leads many to become as close as possible
to any blood relations.
Traditional surrogacy offers yet another challenge to
maternity by giving an intentional couple a paternal link to their child. Traditional
surrogacy works by allowing a couple to provide sperm that then is inseminated into another woman that gestates the child
using her own egg. This twists the biological role of maternity by providing
a biological link through the intending mothers husband, but not from herself. This
gives a slightly closer link than adoption, as one of the parents is biologically linked to the child, though traditionally
motherhood is seen as greatly strengthened by genetics and gestation. Maternity,
however, remains skewed because the intending mother still has no biological ties to the child. Many women, however, feel consoled in the fact that their husband is still the biological father, thus
holding some biological ties within the family. These cases can be very contestable
because the surrogate provides all biological ties while the intending mother provides the social. In the controversial case In Re Baby M, the contracting couple,
the Sterns, contracted Mary Beth Whitehead to gestate their child using William Sterns sperm for $10,000 (Dolgin 1997:80-93). Though she signed the contract, Mary Beth Whitehead decided mid-term that she was
not willing to give up the child and fled to Florida (Dolgin 1997:80-93). This brought up an interesting
case, because it divided the issue of maternity before the law and posed the question as to which held more ground: biological
maternity or lawful maternity. Held in New Jersey, the trail
court upheld the rights of the Sterns to the child based on best interest but the state Supreme Court ruled in favor of biological
ties, giving rights to both William Stern and Mary Beth Whitehead, the biological parenthood (Dolgin 1997:80-93). The contest over biological and contractual maternity is much disputed because it divides it into biology
and social choice. This separates the traditional views that biological ties
and blood relatives are central to family, and instead places significance on the actual interaction with the child. Traditional surrogacy is contestable because it draws a clear line between the biological
and social aspects of maternity.
Gestational surrogacy adds yet another twist on maternity
issues by dividing the biological aspect of maternity, which make its line much fuzzier.
In it, the intending mother and father provide genes through their egg and sperm respectively, which is joined and
implanted in vitro into another woman who then gestates the child. This separates
biological maternity in half, giving genetics to one woman, and gestation to the other.
Though closer to traditional values than adoption and traditional surrogacy, gestational surrogacy still splits maternity
because though the intending mother is genetically and socially the mother of the child, she did not actually gestate it. This split in maternity gives the intending mother both a biological and social tie
to her child, yet still lacks what many see as an integral part biologically. Gestational
surrogacy is often performed using a woman the intending couple knows as the gestational surrogate. In one particular case, a married couple, Kay and Michael, asked Michaels sister Rachel to gestate their
child (Thompson 2001:182-185). This resulted in Rachel being both the gestational
mother and the lawful aunt of the child. Such cases of inter-family gestational
mothers mangle the American cultural ideologies concerning the family. Gestational
surrogacy splits maternity biologically, raising the question as to what holds importance biologically: genetics or gestation. This split created once again shows the importance placed on biological kinship as
the intending mother strives to become what is seen as traditionally real by creating a biological tie to the child.
By examining the variety of challenges placed on traditional
views of maternity by adoption and both tradition and gestational surrogacy, it becomes evident that the American cultural
value placed on maternal biology is very influential. Many adoptees claim that
their adoptive parents are their real parents, yet the importance of blood is still shown as many adoptees do eventually endeavor
to find their biological parents. Traditional surrogacy provides a paternal link
to a child, bringing the mother closer though not through her own blood but by her husbands.
Gestational surrogacy provides a truer link, and the intending mother actually provides the genetic link through her
egg, though another woman gestates the child. These all offer a twist on the
traditional ideologies held concerning the mother as a biological, natural mother by altering the actual blood ties and distorting
the importance of nature. Though a desire for blood ties continues, adoption
and surrogacy reconfigure cultural values of maternity by placing a heavier emphasis on choice and contract.
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